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Beryl Glass

Why we all must find time to ‘be still’

Creating space for God is essential for every woman says Beryl Glass

There is so much rushing around in our lives, vital to-do lists and no end of interesting things to distract us. It’s not surprising that we feel overwhelmed and would just like a place to ‘be still’.

We’d like to experience God’s presence, and think about our priorities and bring them into alignment with God’s plans and purposes for us.

At Glasgow Elim, we’ve recognised that women often need to find space to do this and, in order to facilitate this, our Aspire ministry has run two retreat days.

We really value spending time together, enjoying a lovely lunch and creating space to ‘be still’ in a pleasant environment, giving space for God to speak to us, not only through what’s shared but in quiet times of soaking and journalling.

Annette Holmes, from Dundee Elim, came and shared her journey of walking in a greater level of intimacy with God. She was very real and open about the challenges that we all face. In encouraging us to be more intentional about the time we spend with God, she gave us three keys: desire, discipline and delight.

When we set our hearts to desire God more, we want to give him time and space and make him a priority over all distractions. Annette encouraged us not to leave time with God until the end of the day. “That’s really like squeezing him into the smallest of spaces − give him the start of your day; put him first.”

Annette shared that since putting God first, she’s had more than enough time to get all her ‘stuff’ done each day. The more of him we experience, the greater the stillness and peace we receive.

What was really special to hear were the stories from those who attended the day. God was doing beautiful things in so many hearts.

Anne Marie, who came on the retreat, shared the following: “We were encouraged to be still and more attentive in our walk with God, not to focus on what others are doing. The part that really challenged me was that I should have no cause to regret what God has done and how God works on me and in me.

“We saw the example of the clay in the hands of the potter and how a messy piece of clay

is slowly being transformed into a beautiful jug. God is bringing shape to our lives... it can be painful but to realise he is doing a good work in us, shaping and making us, is so powerful. It’s all down to trusting him.”

Why not consider putting on a retreat day for the women in your church?

Here are some ideas to get your planning started:

  1. Choose a venue that’s not too far to travel to. 
  2. Provide everyone with a journal and pen. 
  3. Create lots of space in the programme for listening to music, prayer and reflection time. 
  4. Use a good caterer so everyone gets a rest! 
  5. Never be afraid of the silence... it’s often then that God speaks the most! 
     

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London Regional Aspire Conference
Saturday 30 May 2026 10:00am – 4:00pm
Join us for the London (Met East) Regional Aspire Conference on Saturday 30th May 2026, hosted at City Gates Church in Ilford! 

Time: 10am - 4pm
(Doors open at 9:30am)

This year's conference is sponsored by Samaritans Purse who are a non-denominational evangelical Christian organisation providing spiritual & physical aid to hurting people around the world.

Our main speaker is Pastor Donna Howells, a gifted teacher and communicator, known for her ability to bring clarity to some of the deeper truths of Scripture. She carries a strong anointing to help believers understand the importance of deliverance within the Church and to walk in the freedom Christ has provided.

Why should you come?
We'll be met with ladies from different church communities across the region for a jam-packed day of worship, the Word, testimonies and seeking God together!

What to expect:
Inspirational speakers
Prayer, Worship & the Word!
A great time of fellowship with other churches from across the region

Grab your tickets today!
https://citygates.churchsuite.com/events/8ziuwggj
Saturday 20 June 2026 10:30am – 5:30pm
The ONE conference is a day conference for all Women - hosted by Elim Aspire ...and you are invited! 

This is a moment where women come together with ONE heart, with ONE voice, to worship ONE God.

It’s more than just a gathering… it’s a space where we pause, make room for God to move, to speak, to challenge, to refresh and to encounter His powerful presence.

DATE: Saturday 20 June 2026

TIMES: 10:30am - 5:30pm (includes a lunch break)

VENUE: ICC Wales, Coldra Woods, Newport, South Wales, NP18 1DE

2026 Guest Speaker: We are delighted to announce that we have guest speaker Lisa Harper from the US joining us this year! For more info please go www.lisaharper.org 


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Day Delegate: £35.00
Student: £20.00
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Group Rate (10 or more): £25 per person - please contact us for your special group discount code

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